As many have come to realize, the middle class is disappearing. It seems that now you are either filthy rich or at poverty level. For financial independence, that long-time career as an employee is not feasible any more. You need to recognize this and teach your kids, from a young age, how to be an entrepreneur and not an employee. For your kids to succeed, they must learn the following business lessons.
Whether your child becomes a solopreneur or takes the startup path, they must know how to sell. You won’t get investors to invest if they can’t persuade them the business is viable investment, nor will they be able to persuade customers to pick them over the competition.
One of the major steps is advising them to have pride and faith in their products or services. They won’t be able to sell what they don’t believe in, and for many kids they need to be coached that what they produce will be good.
Target Growth, Not Avoidance
Failure is the biggest educational impediment that your child faces today. Kids are afraid of failure, as parents are drilling into them that failure is unacceptable. The entrepreneurial perspective needs failure as that is feedback, and it can guide you into working better. They need to look at failure as part of the process of entrepreneurship, and that avoiding it at all costs ends up limiting their options.
You need to look at these fear acronyms (there are many more but these two are relevant to our post): Forget Everything and Run or Face Everything and Recover. Everyone makes mistakes, and scolding your kids when they do doesn’t help; just let them know everything will be okay and ask them what they learned because of the mistake. You need to guide them rather than just tell them what they ‘should’ learn; ask them leading questions and guide them toward the answer.
Independence and Autonomy
Successful entrepreneurs take initiative. There always times when waiting is the best call, however, in a lot of cases action is better than reaction. They need to push past the competition, which seems to just get more intense.
The next generation must have independence, autonomy, and initiative. Coddling and helicopter parenting over your kids all the time robs them of all three, which in the end costs them in the future when they want to create their own companies. You need to back off when they have projects to do; you can answer their questions, just don’t tell them what to do.
Get your kids to comprehend that being an entrepreneur and running their own business can’t be done for free. There are many costs such as time and money. They need to get a handle on these costs or they won’t be able to handle running a startup.
For an entrepreneur, the important lessons are financial responsibility and literacy. That summer job or lemonade stand, as innocent as those may be, can teach them about income streams, savings, and profits.
Concentrate on Action
Paralysis by analysis is a phrase than can definitely take the beginning entrepreneur. Planning and theorizing are important, but great entrepreneurs are made from that. Entrepreneurs act on their ideas (and make mistakes) instead of worrying about the possibilities. Don’t get obsessed by checking all the angles, you eventually need to take action.
When your kid has an entrepreneurial idea, encourage them to consider carefully but not fearfully. You need to stress the obsessing over every little detail isn’t ideal, and there are many benefits for just doing it.
Entrepreneurial lessons may seem to be harsh, but they don’t have to be given in a strict manner. You’re teaching your kids to be independent, but that doesn’t mean you have to be cold. Being cold-hearted or mechanical may teach the wrong lessons. You should be warm and supportive. Your children will thank you, both for your kindness, and for showing them how to handle being an entrepreneur.